Escaping an Abusive Relationship
Physical and emotional abuse can very easily cause deep permanent damage to an individual. What’s so unfortunate about this type of situation is that you live in fear of daily abuse but still stay in the relationship. You find yourself covering up the marks, crying through the hurtful words, and making excuses for him. Abusive relationships originate from anger and from him trying to establish a sense of control over you. Then, before you know it, he controls every cent that you make, and how much you spend. Now you’re there feeling completely trapped and dependent upon him with no way out. What you really should be planning to do is escaping an abusive relationship.
“No man is worth your tears. And the one who is won’t make you cry.” Brian Littrell
Blaming him isn’t going to fix the situation
You can go ahead and blame him but it is only his fault for so long. In the end, you have to rescue yourself. A verbally abusive relationship is just as bad as a physical one. They will both lead to psychological issues, so you can’t ignore the warning signs. The verbal and emotional abuse will quickly escalate to physical harm. All he can do after the damage is done is say sorry and make promises to never do it again. Once that point is reached though, you shouldn’t listen to any of those lies because history is surely just going to repeat itself.
It doesn’t matter how much you love him, you have to love yourself more and know that you don’t deserve to be hurt and abused. You will get whatever you are willing to tolerate, and the longer you stay the harder it will be to get out. Don’t let him break you and make you believe that everything is your fault. There are so many people and organisations that are willing to help you.
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Thanks for reading,
Psychic Madeline Rose
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