Twin-Flame Partnership
I am writing this article to clarify to my clients what the Twin-Flame Partnership is and what to aim for while on that path. Many are confused as to what the path is and how to recognise a twin-flame. It’s simple really. Think of it like a Ballroom dancing partnership. You have to have equal desire for your relationship to work as well as the ability for it to work. You also both have to want to improve yourself and the lives of those around you. Plus you both have to be working towards making that happen. If these factors aren’t part of the situation, you don’t have a twin-flame partnership and you aren’t on the twin-flame journey or path.
Twin-Flame Path
A successful twin-flame partnership is very similar to a ballroom dancing partnership where two people dance at A-grade level. Each partner has worked hard to get to that standard where they are superior dancers, having previously danced with other dance partners along the way. When they commence their partnership at A-grade level they are both very well-matched with one another. The joining of the two together and the performance of their dancing is a pure pleasure to watch. One must remember though that thousands and thousands of hours of work have gone into getting to that level.
Equally Yoked
A successful, long-term twin-flame relationship is the same in that each person within the partnership came into the partnership at an equal level of development to the other. Each person has done lots and lots of work on themselves to get ready to be with the other. And if they haven’t, they either are about to embark upon the fastest uphill personal development journey of their life, or they didn’t have a huge amount to work on in the first place. Perhaps they grew up in a loving family environment and haven’t been abused. These lucky individuals definitely have a head-start on the journey of love.
Never Going to Change
An unsuccessful attempt to join with a twin-flame will occur when you choose to go into a relationship to ‘fix’ the other person. The better option is to journey beside them while they go about fixing themselves. You cannot fix anyone, especially someone who doesn’t want to be fixed. All that you can do is try to fix and master yourself. Yet many of my clients stay with people who are toxic, which eventually drags them down and brings out the worst in them. Through projection, they place their own need to heal themselves onto their partner. They make a mission out of ‘fixing’ him when they really should be putting all that time and attention into their own healing. Mind you, their partner probably does need to do a lot of work on him or herself. However, unless that person actually wants to heal and fix themselves, they are never going to change anyway.
Success
When I do readings, my successful twin-flame clients tell me that they have done hundreds if not thousands of hours work upon themselves. They have worked on their emotional and spiritual development, their health and their knowledge of how to be a considerate, kind and caring man or woman. For these clients, most are happily involved with someone who has done the same.
Not a Twin-Flame
However, for some others, their partner hasn’t done the same. These clients have often been told by other readers that their partner is their twin-flame. Let me assure you, the partner who has done no work on themselves is not their twin-flame. Usually, the client is calling me because the partner is neglectful or abusive of her, or he doesn’t want to work on their relationship. Why ANY psychic would tell their client that a guy (or girl) like this is their client’s twin-flame is beyond me.
Don’t Expect Your Partner to Change
Then I have clients who have read all about the twin-flame journey. These clients are dragging their supposed twin-flame along after having decided to stick with it because they believe their partner to be ‘the one’. They make allowances for their partner’s lack of development and all the chaos which that causes because they hope that he or she will change. Or, they are trying to make their partner change. That’s just futile and won’t amount to anything positive. No one will change unless he or she wants to. Then, if they do, they will change only for themselves, not to please you. If they do try to change to please you, they’ll resent you for it and won’t stay with you anyway.
Exhaustion
Now, one thing that I know for sure within a dancing partnership is that if the lady is hanging all over the man, things won’t work. Expecting him to lead you whilst not carrying your own weight but making him carry you, he’ll end up too tired to finish the dance. He’ll have to step aside because your dead weight on his arm tires him out too much. It exhausts him. Stand up straight and take your weight off him. Hold your own weight. Don’t lean. This can also be said of your emotions – stand up emotionally straight and don’t lean all over him.
This is a fantastic analogy of what happens to relationships where one person leans all over the other through clinginess or neediness.
Pushing and Shoving
On the other hand, if the man in a dancing partnership is pushing and shoving the woman around, eventually he will push her over. This too is a fantastic analogy for a relationship. If one person pushes and shoves the other around, then eventually the other will collapse and lose their balance. When someone has lost their emotional balance, they become insecure and unstable and a drain on the relationship. Through their lack of balance, they become a dead weight within the relationship because they cannot (whilst ever they stay in that situation) regain their balance. If you haven’t worked on yourselves to grow and improve, these things will likely happen and I see it all the time when looking into people’s lives.
Dead Weight
If you’re not doing the work to grow and improve, then you become a dead weight. You will lean on your partner, or he or she will lean on you. Or either one of you will push and shove the other around. Then there will be a battle for ‘standing room’ and a contest as to who will get it. These types of relationships are never twin-flame relationships. If you have that kind of relationship with someone and you’ve been told that he or she is your twin-flame (and you’re staying because you believe what you were told), you should leave. What you have is an addiction, not a twin-flame partnership. Don’t waste one more moment putting up with abuse in that kind of relationship.
Balance
Now, if this is you, because of the battle that has gone on in your relationship, you’ll be off-balance. You’ll need to restore balance within yourself so that you can start again with someone else. In the process of regaining balance, it’s best to walk away from the relationship that put you off-balance in the first place. Then as you come back into balance as a single man or woman, you will gain confidence and a feeling that it doesn’t really matter whether or not your long-term partner does, in fact, come along at all now. When you reach this point in your development, you are the most balanced that you have been for a while. At this point in your journey, he or she is likely to suddenly rock up at your door.
Twin-Flame Path of Self-Mastery
When this finally happens, you will be able to have a balanced and equal partnership with someone who could very likely be your twin-flame. All the rest is just BS and hype. If you don’t have balance in your relationship, if you have addiction rather than love, you aren’t with a twin-flame. If you haven’t done the work within yourself to clear your issues and heal your pain, you definitely aren’t ready for a twin-flame relationship anyway.
Don’t believe the BS that you’re told by psychics who make money off the despair and confusion that comes from being with someone who is simply an abuser. Master yourself first. Make that your priority. When you’ve done enough work on yourself to be ready to have a twin-flame relationship, then you will be granted one, and not a single moment beforehand.
Thanks for reading,
Psychic Madeline Rose
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