Feminism and the Hookup Culture
There are a lot of women out there who appear to be successful on the outside, but on the inside they are paralysed by anxiety and depression. They may have successful careers or they might be making wise investments, yet they just aren’t happy. They are surrounded by a bevy of friends from all stations in life who are smart, intellectual, or creative women like themselves. And yet, they still feel worthless. Mostly it’s because of how they feel when interacting with guys. Feminism and the Hookup Culture has a lot to answer for.
How Did We Get To This?
The real problem is that women have fallen for the satanic music and film industry’s (and mainstream media’s) conditioning that tells them who they have to be or what they have to do to be an accepted and successful woman. Or, they follow the lead of other women who are hooking up with different guys, just because that’s the way things are done in their circle of friends.
Due to these bad influences, they behave in ways that are detrimental to their spiritual and emotional health. They fall into bed with any man who suggests that they hookup, but they end up hating themselves because of it. They judge themselves harshly to the point of developing eating disorders or drug problems. Why? Because they are disgusted with their behaviour. They also allow others to dictate how they should look and so they are disgusted with their bodies.
The Hookup Culture
The hookup culture is one where a woman has a series of emotionless one-night stands. It’s a soul-less culture, one that burns the hope out of a multitude of women. It destroys family values and replaces them with a pseudo form of happiness, one that ultimately never fulfills a woman’s heart. Purposely shaped by people so evil that one simply cannot believe how they can look themself in the eye in a mirror or how they can sleep at night.
Who Do They Want Me To Be?
Who is it that the music, movie, and media industry tell women they have to be? They have to be feminists according to those sources! Feminist women are not allowed to yearn for an emotional connection with a man. They must be successful on their own without the assistance of a loving partner, and they mustn’t ever lose their head over love.
Who is behind all of this? Watch this short clip of Aaron Russo speaking. You’ll soon realise who has orchestrated the attitudes of today, and why.
Feminists, when surrounded by their peers, are women who would otherwise want a loving relationship. Yet they will convince themselves that they don’t, just so that they fit into the culture that surrounds them. There is an unspoken code in the hookup culture that says that to show love or affection or to want commitment or vulnerability means that you are being “clingy”. Some people even go so far as to label those desires as “crazy”.
The Feminist Agenda
The Feminist agenda is one that promotes sexual liberation to women. Yet women’s sexual liberation leaves women (and men) cold. On a spiritual level, women are the custodians of the gateway to God. Our heart is a portal to Divine Source, however, if we trash our body and our sexuality in a way that dismisses our basic need for intimacy, ultimately we close our access to the Divine. No matter how we try to wrap and pack what we’re doing, we end up hurting ourselves and regretting it.
If we continue to be a part of the hookup culture, we become desperate to know what it feels like to be wanted; desperate for a chance at intimacy. Desperate to hold our partner’s hand in daylight when out together in public. Public affection is not allowed in the feminist hookup culture. It is usually only expressed after a few drinks. We also become desperate to try commitment, then to decide whether or not it is working rather than having that choice made permanently unavailable to us.
Too many hookups and we lose our balance. We start to obsess with the ambiguity of it all, then we obsess about our hookup partner. Does he like me? Do I like him? He hasn’t phoned me today, or he hasn’t texted me today. Read this text. I’m so confused. He told me that he didn’t want anything yet he keeps asking me to hang out.
Over time we become attached. With attachment comes shame, anxiety, and emptiness. Women are not meant to shatter their energies by getting involved in casual hookups. We are meant to guard our Light. It’s the Light that is used to nurture ourselves, our children, and all of the other people in our lives. Casual hookups disperse that energy by leaking it to people who use us and who don’t appreciate us.
We Are All One
When it is said that we are all one, what that means is that we are all connected and interlinked via the flow of energy between us. It is easy to recall the people who feel good to be around versus the people who drain us. When we’re in the presence of someone who is positive and uplifting, we feel good. When we are in the presence of someone who is negative and whose negativity pulls on our own energy field, we feel drained or angry, or we suddenly become depressed for no reason. This phenomenon shows a clear link to the fact that we are all connected via our energy fields.
Our energy field is most often referred to as our Aura. It surrounds us in an egg-like shape. When we have a healthy aura, the outside rim of our aura is strong and unbroken. It protects us from absorbing too much of anyone else’s energy when we interact with them. When our aura is damaged due to drugs, casual sex, or trauma, we easily take on the emotions and spiritual waste matter of other people.
The whole of our 3D existence is made up of the energy fields of everything that we see around us. Plants have an energy field, as do animals. The energy field of plants is clean and strong, as plants (unless traumatised because of what humans have done to them) get their energy from sunlight. Sunlight is the great battery-charger of the heavens. Sunlight is filled with a host of incredible information that assists us spiritually to grow and to become wise. It is a bad thing that our western culture spends so much time in front of their computers, phones, and televisions and no longer goes outside to spend time in the sun. We miss out on so much when we fail to let the sun’s rays shine upon us.
The energy field of animals is also clean and strong unless, of course, they have had abusive experiences with humans. All animals are connected to the Source of Creation through their hearts. On a spiritual level, animals far surpass humans spiritually in that they make no judgment of others, they love unconditionally, and they mostly live in the present moment, unafraid of what may come next in their lives.
When we’re in tune with our ability to feel the environment around us, we’re able to detect the subtle differences of being in certain places as compared to others, or of being in the presence of certain people as compared to others. It is always an uplifting experience to be in the presence of our domestic companions. So too is it to be in the presence of someone who has a kind and loving heart, whose energy is expansive. It is always an uplifting experience to swim in the ocean or lake, or to walk in the forest or national park. Nature, animals, and good people are very refreshing to be around.
Sea of Energy
Here’s a good way to describe the process of how we join with the energy field of a crowd: think about what it was like to go and see a live performance of some kind. It may have been a rock concert, or it may have been a musical. The flow of energy from the stage to the audience and back again can be very powerful at times. So powerful it is almost surreal. Even though the performers are quite some distance from the majority of the audience, each person in the audience feels like he or she is right there with them, standing talking to them face to face. A deep connection is easy to feel when we’re transfixed on their performance. That connection sends the performers our energy, so they in turn get replenished from performing and sending energy to their audience.
When two people who are attracted to each other interact, they send vibes to one another. Those vibes can produce a feeling of euphoria which then starts to create an emotional bond between the two. The more that they pay attention to one another, the stronger the bond becomes. The attraction then reaches a point where one or both people start to crave the presence or touch of the other.
Energy that is transferred through sexual intimacy entwines the two so strongly that when there is a break-up, it can be and usually is very painful. It hurts to unravel our energy from that of someone with whom we had such a strong bond. Not only that, but it can happen that sometimes either you or the other person fails to withdraw his or her energy. Thus, we can still feel the connection long after the relationship has ceased to be. If we have multiple partners, it is going to be even more difficult for us to break free of each one of them when we decide to change our habits. We have to cut ties with all of the people whom we’ve slept with, otherwise we carry a piece of them with us forever.
Spiritual Waste Matter
Spiritual waste matter can manifest as dirty energy or hooks and barbs from previous sexual encounters. They can clutter our field of energy if we get involved in the wrong way or with the wrong person. The other person’s thoughts and unresolved emotions can become entangled with our own, especially during sex. Even more so if sex occurs in an environment that is not loving and committed.
The borders of the roots of intimacy are not only delicate, but highly invasive. When another human being fully opens themselves up and immerses themselves in one’s flesh, walls are broken down and the only thing for the two souls to experience is vulnerability, no matter if that was or was not the intention. It is unconscious and whether you choose to accept or ignore what is happening, the truth of the circumstance will without a doubt present itself. After repeated sexual exchanges with one person, the soul begins to reform and takes on the energies of the other individual. You end up taking on the feelings of that guy or girl, and you may develop false hope. In extreme circumstances, loss of self. You take on spiritual waste matter because love is not present to burn the negative away.
During any sexual encounter, an energetic bond is formed in the spiritual realm. A loving bond between a couple who are committed to one another will strengthen their union and bring them together like opposite sides of a magnet. Whereas loveless bonds between multiple sexual partners are dangerous because they entangle our spirit with the toxic emotions of all those partners. Spiritual waste matter is more prevalent because there is no love involved. In the demonic realm, unholy unions can serve as channels for satanic energy to flow and be released into this 3D realm here.
As Feminism rises, promiscuity does too. Guys these days are so used to having sex handed to them that they now expect it without having to commit to a relationship. The new ‘honour’ code for a guy is to openly ask to hookup with you and to tell you what he wants and what he doesn’t want. It is assumed that honesty is an equal substitute for honour, when the truth is that it is not. Any guy who wants to use you is not honouring your need for intimacy. He is not approaching the throne of the Divine Feminine in a way that honours that throne. What in fact he is doing is asking your permission to use you. Let’s call it what it really is, shall we?
So, no matter how the guy presents the idea of hooking up in a fuck-buddy arrangement, you are going to lose a piece of yourself to him and to every other man whom you sleep with on a casual basis. It is an undeniable fact, and cannot be prevented, no matter what.
It Hurts Guys Too
Guys are fooling themselves if they think that having casual sex is good for them. As much as it hurts us as women, it also hurts them. Sure, their bodies drive them to need more sex than us, but deep down they would prefer to be with someone whom they respect, trust, who they can treat with affection, and who treats them with affection in return. Deep down they too hope to meet their compatible soul-mate whom they can love and adore. If their sexual drive wasn’t as powerful as it is they would seek a deeper, more love-centered union. Watch this video here and be surprised at who they really are.
If you are in-tune with what you need to be fulfilled as far as human interaction goes, you will know that taking small portions of energy from every casual sexual encounter that you go ahead with does not feed your hunger for intimacy. What most women need from their sexual encounters (and more importantly for their own soul) is the security of knowing that the intimacy being exchanged between them and their partner is not piece-meal, but whole and meaningful.
Giving Away Our Energy
Does having casual sex lessen our spiritual bank-balance? Of course it does! When dealing with the soul and intimacy, sex is the quickest way to penetrate one’s deepest emotions. No matter how much we try to ignore it, there is a definite loss when casual sexual intimacy takes place. The flesh is only so deep, but when our bodies are physically joined our energies intermingle and unless there is love one person always comes away feeling drained. Sometimes both do. The person who doesn’t want to get involved usually takes from the one who does. As I have already stated, it cannot be prevented.
Drained and Exploited
Whether consciously or not, we can all feel the energy field of our sexual partner. Our energy field is either positive or negative. It is either expansive and beams outwards, or it sucks on the energy / life-force of others and pulls inwards. Like a black hole in space, energy fields like this gobble up their surroundings, always wanting more.
We’ve all been around people whose energy field does this. How does it make us feel? It makes us feel drained and exploited, doesn’t it? Why on earth would anyone put themselves in such close proximity to someone who drains the life-force out of us? Choose your partner wisely. If there isn’t a positive partner who wants to be involved in a committed relationship with you, abstain. Abstain rather than infect yourself with the toxic energy of a vampire. Don’t throw your pearl to swine. It’s just not worth it.
Thanks for reading,
Psychic Madeline Rose
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