It’s quite possible to be married for many, many years. And even though you feel that you have a good, stable relationship, you may still become infatuated with someone other than your spouse. You might even have children who still live at home. Becoming fixated on people who seem exciting are the type of Destructive Infatuations that destroy a good marriage.
Too Much Time on Your Hands
Let’s say that one of you retires… there’s going to be an adjustment period needed at that time. Either you or your husband might meet someone who has interests that neither of you have shared with each other before, and the next thing you know, you’re deeply involved in conversations with this new person. Those conversations can lead to infatuations that will prove to be very destructive to your marriage if you don’t keep tabs on what’s going on.
Try to remember that your children and your marriage of over 20 years is a reality, while the new person and the conversations that you’re having with him or her, is just a fantasy. It’s an infatuation, and infatuations can be euphoric. The excitement of such a connection can seem pretty magical and pre-destined.
But be very careful. There are dark forces in realms that we can’t see with our eyes, who sit waiting for opportunities like this to entice you with someone who will destroy your marriage. They will sit in the invisible realms beside you and whisper into your ear about how wonderful this new person is. You’ll think that the thoughts are your own, but they’re not. They’re being projected at you by entities who sit off to the side of you, from a world that you cannot see.
One way to stifle the infatuation with someone outside of your marriage, is to write down all of the things that you have to be grateful for about your spouse. Write everything that you can possibly think of. Do it on a daily basis until you have overcome the habit of thinking of the new person. This will help to take out of you the hooks that these dark entities have shot into you. You will begin to heal from the damage done from opening up to thinking that someone else is better than your current partner.
Stress Weakens a Relationship
Usually, these situations raise their heads when there is increased stress or pressure in your marriage. If you suddenly begin hearing thoughts that are quite unlike your usual thought processes, taking you to places in your thinking where you would not normally go, you can be sure that the thoughts aren’t yours. They’re being put into your head by forces who will gain from the pain and chaos that would ensue should your marriage break up.
These forces can be stopped. Firstly, by becoming aware that they are there and how they operate. These entities will use the “I” and the “me” word when placing suggestions into your mind. They will say things like, “I’m really tired of this marriage that I’m in,” or they will say, “This man really interests me,” and then project images of him into your head for the next four hours. You can prevent them from doing this by knowing where the thoughts are coming from. They aren’t yours.
Command them to Leave
Secondly, you can prevent these entities from having power over you by commanding them to leave. Our Father in Heaven granted us dominion over the earth and all of its creatures, as well as all of Heaven’s angels. Therefore, when a demon is messing with you, all you have to do is command it to leave in the name of Jesus Christ.
The Attack Against Relationships
Do you realise why demonic forces attack happy relationships? Most people don’t. Most people don’t see how much light is created by two people in love. Not to mention how much light is created when those two people have had children and there’s love flowing throughout the family home.
Matrix of Light
The light that emits from such a home expands for miles around the home, and it connects with the light of all other homes where there is love. When it does that, a grid (matrix) is formed across the planet that keeps evil at lower levels. This is why for the last 70 years or so there has been a definitive attack against relationships, marriage, and family. If Lucifer and his demonic family can lower the amount of light in the world by destroying the family and family values, he can gain more power in the world.
Well done if you have treasured your family and your marriage. You have contributed more to this world than you will ever realise. By keeping the home fires burning, you are doing your fair share in helping to rid this planet of evil. By being a loving and respectful partner and parent, you’re protecting the Light of our Heavenly Father on this planet. Never feel that you haven’t done any good in the world if your only achievement was being a loving mum and wife, and eventually a grandmother. You’ve done so much more than others, even though the world doesn’t acknowledge what you’ve done.
Know Your Own Self-Worth
You don’t have to seek value outside of your marriage. You ARE valued by Beings whom you cannot see, but I’m sure you can feel them. Heaven’s hosts see what you do and have done, and they value your beautiful contribution to this world. Just truly believe (or rather, KNOW) that you have the power to command evil forces to leave. If you can’t do this, you might need to do some affirmations to help release your mind from the hooks that have found their way into you.
Here are some affirmations to help you:
a) An affair would demean my role in the world.
b) Through it, I would teach that commitment is a worthless value.
c) An affair would risk the happiness and security of my children, who trust me.
d) An affair would remove me from the path that my husband (or wife) and I had meant to walk.
e) I am the one person in the world with whom my husband (or wife) has chosen to remain. This trust must not be betrayed.
f) An affair is an act of extreme insensitivity that would diminish me spiritually.
g) Sharing mere concepts and words with someone does not make me more spiritual.
h) An affair would raise my body to a position of control that it is incapable of assuming.
i) Until I question the value of betrayal, I will not feel a guiding presence in my life.
As you think along these lines, help yourself heal by stopping all communication with whoever you’ve become fixated upon. Add to this an increased effort to be as kind as you can to your husband and your children. Notice that these efforts to choose commitment over betrayal feel good. You are not sacrificing pleasure and happiness, you are choosing a different kind of pleasure and happiness. One that is lasting and more deeply satisfying.
Thanks for reading,
Psychic Madeline Rose
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