Twin Flames vs Soulmates
This article is for those clients who would like to know more about someone whom they hope might be their twin flame. It will clarify what a twin flame is and what it takes to be ready for a twin flame relationship. There are some questions to ask yourself first in order to know whether you are indeed ready for this kind of relationship. Here’s some information about Twin Flames vs Soulmates:
Are You Ready?
Have you worked upon yourself enough to clear your issues? Have you looked at your actions throughout the course of your life? Then have you looked at the things that you do now? Do you recognise the aspects of yourself that you need to change or fix? Have you done the work to process your Shadow and integrate yourself to become whole? Can you honestly say that you would put your own needs aside for those of the greater community? If you can’t say yes to these questions, then chances are you’re not ready for a twin flame relationship. So here goes:
If you have done the work to process your own Shadow (a Jungian term) ie. if you’ve taken the time to look at your transgressions upon others and asked for forgiveness for your actions from the spiritual beings who govern our world, then you’ve done some of the work needed. Then if you’ve offered those parts of yourself up for healing so that you can correct the distortions within you, you’ve done some more of what’s needed. Have you then integrated both the light and the dark within you and become whole? If so it’s likely that you’re doing really well.
If you haven’t done any of these things, there’s no way that you’re ready for a twin flame relationship. However, a soul mate will come along who will teach you about yourself.
If you’ve taken the time to release yourself from the pain of the transgressions made against you by others and forgiven them for what they did to you, then perhaps you’re ready to meet a twin flame. Or perhaps you are already in a relationship with a twin flame. If you haven’t done what I just asked you about, then you won’t be in a twin flame relationship and you won’t be ready to meet a twin flame. Don’t kid yourself into thinking that just because there’s a powerful attraction to someone that he or she is your twin flame.
Shadow Work
If you’ve processed your own dark side (Shadow) to the point where you are mostly light and not much dark, then perhaps you may have met your twin flame or are with them already. However, unless he or she’s done the same, then it’s not likely that the two of you as a couple are twin flames.
Our Shadow develops through emotional wounding – wounding that occurs when we go through the individuation process when we are just two years old. It happens when we separate from the feeling of being part of the whole cosmos to being an individualised spark of the living Tao, and this can be a painful process.
The Terrible Twos
Some young children become stubborn and demanding, and others become clingy. It is because they are afraid of the separation process. If their parents don’t offer full and complete love and nurturing during this time, they can become wounded by the abandonment that they feel in separating from God. They can then become further wounded in the act of being raised by parents who themselves have not addressed their own unconscious fears, corruption, and degradation in the form of shame, guilt, fear, and anger.
Processing your Shadow is mandatory if you want to meet your twin flame.
What’s More Important?
If you have gone beyond surviving or being motivated by material things; if you’ve gone beyond buying a house, having kids, owning the latest gadgets and best of everything, then maybe, just maybe, you’re ready to be with a twin flame.
Service to Others
Have you decided that your life’s purpose is to serve others or this planet or the creatures who live on it? Are you hoping to team up with or already are with someone who also has their own mission to do those things? If so, then you might be ready to meet or are already with a twin flame. Should the one whom you may happen to be asking about have done the same, then it’s very possible that he or she is your twin flame. If they haven’t, then they are likely to be a soulmate rather than a twin flame.
For guys, is what’s in a woman’s heart more important to you than how she looks? Or is she only there so that you can show her off to your mates (buddies)? Worse still, is she only there to satisfy your needs and desires?!! Let’s hope not!! If these things don’t matter to you or don’t apply then perhaps you’re ready to meet your twin flame. Perhaps the girl whom you’re asking about is your twin flame (if she too has done the preparation work needed also).
Soulmates
If you say no to some or any of these things, then she definitely won’t be your twin flame. She might be a soul mate – of which you have many – but she won’t be your twin flame.
For the ladies, if you can’t say yes to most of these things, then it’s very unlikely that the man whom you’re asking about is your twin flame.
Examples
Examples of famous twin flame relationships:
Jesus and Mary Magdalene
Merlin and Nimue
Grace Kelly and Prince Rainier
Joanne Woodward and Paul Newman
These people made their lives about service to the planet and to those who live on it. Ask yourself if that’s what you are doing, or want to do, or have done. Is that what your intended partner is doing, or wants to do, or has done? Can you honestly say that this is what you want and what your partnership is or would be all about? If so, then you’ve met or are already with your twin flame.
Thanks for reading,
Psychic Madeline Rose
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