White Shadow
My ol’ teacher taught us about the White Shadow in people. It often appears as Mr or Mrs Nice Guy or Gal, but in truth it is the aspect of them that wants to be right, to dominate, to have others do what they want them to do. Despite attempting to portray itself as good, it is as good as communist in the way that it acts. It’s the part of them that says that they are special, more spiritual, and chosen. The part of them that talks into their mind, making judgments of others and placing themselves above the people around them while barely knowing them. The White Shadow is most often a hidden narcissist.
Narcissists
People whose White Shadow is dominant in them will be like Joan Crawford of Mommy Dearest fame. They will have a social mask that hides a truly evil person behind the mask. That person is a narcissist and is often demonically possessed. If you challenge them, you’d better be prepared to get out of their way because they will drop their mask and their true self will be laid bare for you to see. Not for all to see, because their mask will come back up when they aren’t dealing with you, but you’ll see who they really are. You won’t be unable to.
Where do narcissists get the idea that they can advise others on their lives without having been asked for advice? What gives a narcissist the right to impose their beliefs on others or tell them what to do? What process has gone on in their mind prior to needing to do that? Or is this just the way that they operate on a regular basis?
Claims of Superiority
The White Shadow is often seen in people who take on caring roles. Nurses; people who work for animal rescue organisations (or, people who have multiple animals of their own); people who run orphanages; teachers; and religious leaders are often hidden narcissists hiding behind a White Shadow. When a narcissist declares that they are more spiritual than or better than another because that person dares to defy them or sets a boundary with them, that is an obvious ploy to regain their position of control or dominance over the other. When the narcissist claims to know the inner workings of another’s Spirit they are merely showing how deluded they are. They are pompous and arrogant and there is no greater example of the White Shadow than someone who does these things.
The Need to Feed
The narcissist tries to feed off the other, and a weak person will let it happen but a healed and strong person won’t. Let’s use the example of a share accommodation situation. Obviously there is a period of getting to know each other when people first meet. The narcissist will reveal themselves very early on because they will want to feed off you. He or she wants you to listen to them and spend time with them and give away your power to them.
If you are strong and can’t be controlled you’ll usually want to back off from that. The strong, healed guy or gal will spend time away from the narcissist/s either by staying mostly in their own room, or by going out and doing their own thing and living their own life. The narcissist will resent that because it means that they can’t control the one who is side-stepping them. Plus, they can’t feed off the target of their emotional hunger – “How dare you not assuage my loneliness!!” the narcissist/s will be thinking.
If you’re weak you will succumb to the fangs of the narcissist who will lock you into spending all of your time with them so that they can happily feed away. If, however, you are healed and are three steps ahead of the narcissist, you’ll set boundaries but will likely be punished for doing so.
Punished
Let’s say that you tell the narcissist to stop telling you what to do. You’ll be punished for that. If you say, “Don’t. Don’t do that. I don’t like it,” you’ll be punished. You have every right to set a boundary if they are telling you what to do or how to live your life. It’s your life and they don’t control you. If it were about something that you’re doing in their home which affects them, that might be alright, but no, you’ve told them not to do something that is affecting you. In the situation that I’m thinking of the narcissist got upset with me for speaking out. I’m not allowed to do that… no, no no. Then what I said was twisted so that I wasn’t allowed to express myself because I was in HER home. What a load of BS that is!!
Social Mask Down
Another example of when I was being disrespected by a narcissist was when I stood up and walked out of a conversation which was headed into an argument. I had said three times that I don’t wish to continue to talk about this to the narcissist involved, and she just would not shut the fuck up. So I stood up and left the room. She screamed after me and wanted to keep going, trying to prove that she was right.
By the time I reached the doorway to my bedroom I’d had enough and told her to fuck off. She then flies into a total rage and comes thumping on my bedroom door, screaming like a banshee at the top of her lungs in the most insane display of unhinged behaviour that I’ve seen in a long time. The social mask was down now and I could see who I was dealing with. Her claim was that I was being disrespectful by telling her to fuck off. Mind you, she wouldn’t shut up when I said three times that I no longer wished to discuss what we’d been talking about so where was her respect for me? There was none.
Pretenders
There are a lot of pretenders out there. Heaps of them. Lots and lots of very sick people walk around in the world trying to feed off of those who are healed and well. Don’t let yourself become the victim of a narcissist. And don’t be a narcissist yourself. Give people the freedom to be who they are and to make their own decisions in their lives. Don’t offer advice unless asked for it. Don’t be controlling. If asked for advice be helpful but not controlling. It’s not your life, so mind your own business.
Thanks for reading,
Psychic Madeline Rose
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