In this article I’d like to explain the process of Growing Beyond where you find yourself emotionally and spiritually. It’s not a difficult process – in fact it’s quite easy. However, to achieve anything permanent when working with this process one has to be diligent and persistent. If you can do that, it’s just a matter of looking deep within yourself and noticing when your shadow traits reveal themselves in your everyday interactions with others. In order to be able to notice, one has to become the observer. One has to stop and think about why they reacted the way that they did, and simply become aware of themselves whenever they are acting in that manner.
By the very act of noticing, of observing, of bringing attention to what you are doing, you significantly reduce the power that your kneejerk reactions have over you. Reducing their power will open you up to more of the Light of God. My teacher used to call it becoming more of a Custodian of the Light. These days people are calling it ascension, but I would never refer to it as such because of the tendency of the ego to take over if one thinks that they have risen above others.
There are established gurus on the internet who have large followings, and who are teaching about the process that they are calling ascension. Two of these teachers are female. One of them is a very good teacher and the other one isn’t. One of them is quite outstanding at what she has to say, and the other one talks dribble. The one who is outstanding has earned her own place in the images in my tarot deck. The other one obviously hasn’t.
The one who talks dribble refers constantly to the process of emotional maturity as ascension. I prefer to call this process Growing Beyond. Spiritual and emotional development is not about being selected or special or rising above others. It is the process of ridding oneself of one’s dark inner traits. Traits such as disdain for others, or perversions, or the tendency to lie – not just about big things but also about the smallest of things. Exaggerating the truth until the truth is no longer the truth.
Spiritual and emotional development is a very practical, hands-on process. It is about subjugating the ego long enough so that another person can feel supported and uplifted by you. Importantly, it’s about not having to always be the one in the limelight or the one dominating the conversation. Next, it is about having such self-control that you don’t have to brag about yourself or compete with others when talking with them. It’s about truly interacting with others and allowing them to have their opinions without needing to change their opinions. So what if what they say isn’t the same as what you believe? So what? Do you always have to have people agree with you? Aren’t they entitled to their own set of beliefs?
Let Them Be
Now that’s a very tricky question in times like this. Especially when their beliefs are going to cost them their lives. By that I’m referring to people who believe that taking the COVID vaccinations and boosters is good for them. I must admit that I have a really hard time allowing them to have their own beliefs around that because a part of me wants to save them from what is going to happen to them if they go down that path. Thus, I’m not a very good example of what I’m trying to explain when it comes to that. But on other subjects and topics I’m doing alright… I can allow others to have their own opinion.
Don’t Lean In
Growing Beyond is also about not leaning on others emotionally. It’s about standing up straight emotionally and not leaning in, suffocating those around you with your neediness. In order to do that one has to go through the long and often arduous process of cutting back on what you think you need.
One of those needs might be that you always have to have people around. Firstly, if you haven’t dealt with that particular need then it will put you into situations that often aren’t good for you. Why? Because you won’t be able to stand back and see who it is you’re dealing with. When you don’t have the ability to look at and see who another person is, you’ll get sucked into friendships with people who will use you, or betray you, or steal from you, or possibly even hurt you emotionally or physically. Neediness for others takes away your ability to discern. Don’t you think it would be a good idea to extract yourself from that need?
And secondly, if you haven’t dealt with the need to have others around all of the time, how do you think people are going to react to you if you’re emotionally leaning in on them all the time? They’re going to want to move out of the way, aren’t they? They’ll hang around just long enough to realise that your neediness is bleeding them dry, and then they’ll disappear. Ask yourself this – do people often remove themselves from my life? If the answer is yes, then please start to notice when you are leaning in on those around you. Through the act of observing yourself doing it, you’re going to start to reduce the power that this need of yours has over you. Just by watching yourself doing it.
Do you see how easy it can be to start Growing Beyond where you find yourself now? Easy, but not quick. It won’t be a quick process. However, if you have patience, and if you continue to observe yourself and notice when your dark inner traits are acting out, you will soon find yourself growing and improving and maturing emotionally. Not many people know how to explain the process of maturing emotionally, but this indeed is it. You need to become the observer of yourself and allow yourself to go through what you are doing. Don’t scold or shame yourself about it, because that in itself is counterproductive. Just observe. By the very act of observing, you will get into a conversation with yourself about how you might handle things better.
If there is a part of you who wants to scold or shame you, that is one of your dark inner shadow traits. You may need to do some positive affirmations to force the mind to change under those circumstances. There’s an amazing audio on youtube titled Gamma Meditation Positive Suggestions which will force the mind to change very quickly. However, you must listen to it morning and night for about six months in order for it to work. When you have a very loud inner critic talking into your mind all of the time, you must FORCE your mind to change. Only with the help of an audio like that will you be able to get your mind to change its patterns. Here is the link to that audio.
Custodian of the Light
Anyway, the process of Growing Beyond is not as difficult as some teachers make out. What I’ve written here will get you well on your way to becoming more of a Custodian of the Light. If you can do that, you become like a lighthouse of energy who will heal people simply by being in their vicinity, and that’s a very worthy and honourable goal to work towards.
Thanks for reading
Psychic Madeline Rose
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