Choosing the Right Life Partner

We all desire the right partner in life. In our heads, we already have a picture of the perfect man or woman that we want to spend the rest of our lives with – how tall we want them to be, hair colour, eyes colour, skin and character. Choosing the right life partner can be like shopping for a list of things that we want from the mall, but real partners aren’t displayed on the shelves at Tiffany’s or Coles, or ordered on Amazon. They are real people with real feelings.

If you desire such then you are not alone in your quest. Although both men and women might seek similar traits in a partner, research has demonstrated that each gender focuses on different qualities. Men typically want a relationship that allows autonomy, while women look for a sense of connection. Choosing the right life partner takes awareness and the ability to observe others without judgment, need or desire. Continue Reading